Have you ever walked into a shopping mall or go to
church and find a lovely, pretty Godly woman who moves your heart and
make you feel like she is the woman of of your dreams? When most guys
meet su...ch a woman, they tend to make some stupid and
silly mistakes but I am here to advice and correct you brother. When you
meet a woman, your mind will be infatuated, and so it is advisable to
WAIT and pray about it for the bible says the steps of a righteous man
are directed by God.
Jeremiah 33:3 (NIV)
‘Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.’
Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
When I was a teenager I used to mingle with beautiful women who would make me wonder how I had survived without them, but after a week, I would realize that it was never love but lust. Lust ruined my relationship with many girls and it ripped off the hearts of many girls. That was so evil.
When you meet someone, get to know her and see if she is compatible with you. Now l am about to reveal how most of the guys makes their mistake. If you have been chasing a woman and she shows the following signs, please just leave her.
Genesis 3:9 (NIV)
But the Lord God called to the man, “Where are you?”
Proverbs 18:22 (NIV)
He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.
A man is the leader and he was given a superior office as compared to that of a woman. To make this simple I would use the following example. You are likened to a man in a ship while she is likened to a woman in a small boat. As a man you are to find the small boat and sail your ship towards the boat and invite the woman (which is finding as stated in Proverbs) to jump off from a little boat and join you on your journey to marriage and the vision of your life. If she is not interested to leave the boat, be a gentleman and respect her wish and tell her that you hope she will find another ship. Its painful to let go brother but if you keep sailing there is another person on a boat, waiting to be rescued and join your ship but the longer you take on someone who is not interested the more you will keep on investing in a bank of no interest. In the end you will run out of fuel, resources and you might even loose focus of where you are to find your own boat to rescue.
Jeremiah 33:3 (NIV)
‘Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.’
Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
When I was a teenager I used to mingle with beautiful women who would make me wonder how I had survived without them, but after a week, I would realize that it was never love but lust. Lust ruined my relationship with many girls and it ripped off the hearts of many girls. That was so evil.
When you meet someone, get to know her and see if she is compatible with you. Now l am about to reveal how most of the guys makes their mistake. If you have been chasing a woman and she shows the following signs, please just leave her.
- If she doesn't respond to your messages or text you only when she is wanting something
- If you buy credit/top for her and she only sends you a message to say thank you or sometimes wait for you to contact her
- If you have been pursuing her for over a month and she is not responding to your proposal.
Genesis 3:9 (NIV)
But the Lord God called to the man, “Where are you?”
Proverbs 18:22 (NIV)
He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.
A man is the leader and he was given a superior office as compared to that of a woman. To make this simple I would use the following example. You are likened to a man in a ship while she is likened to a woman in a small boat. As a man you are to find the small boat and sail your ship towards the boat and invite the woman (which is finding as stated in Proverbs) to jump off from a little boat and join you on your journey to marriage and the vision of your life. If she is not interested to leave the boat, be a gentleman and respect her wish and tell her that you hope she will find another ship. Its painful to let go brother but if you keep sailing there is another person on a boat, waiting to be rescued and join your ship but the longer you take on someone who is not interested the more you will keep on investing in a bank of no interest. In the end you will run out of fuel, resources and you might even loose focus of where you are to find your own boat to rescue.
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| The Deception of Women |
The Deception of Women
If a woman is interested she will show you positive signs but so many women are now flirting with guys, giving false hopes so they could enjoy some benefits when they really know that they are not interested. She will keep on saying that she needs time and give many excuses of not accepting your proposal.
It's simple, if it isn't you that she wants, keep it moving. Why waste energy trying to understand why she don't want you when you can use that same energy working on you. Truth is, God answers our prayers, it's just that we either choose to not receive them because they are not packaged the way we like or we are just not ready to receive them. Stop chasing those who do not choose you and let God bring your blessing to you. This is clearly revealed in 1samuel 8 when the nation of Israel wanted a king but God's answer was not packaged the way they wanted. They chose not to receive it and Saul disappointed them. They suffered many consequences. Let go and let God.
YOU CANT KEEP ON CHASING AFTER SOMETHING THAT DOESN'T WANT TO GET CAUGHT. LET GO AND KEEP SAILING.
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