A Godly Spouse is Worth the Wait.

I am writing these to the senior bachelors, spinsters who are longing and desiring to get married but more so to the single women as many often come wanting to know how can they get a godly spouse, how can they get married. If you are one of these lets just get one thing clear that desire is not a bad thing it doesn't make you desperate. God naturally created us for relationship and the desire and longing to be in covenant relationship is normal. You maybe looking at your age thinking my sell by date is way past due. I just want to encourage you to keep your focus on God, allow God to bring the right spouse for you. Do not go out there and manufacture your own husband or wife because the wrong spouse will derail you from God's destiny for your life.

A Godly Spouse is Worth the Wait

While you are still single l want to encourage you to focus on being the bride of Christ, and as you do that you will find that you then prepare for your actual spouse. Do not look at what the situation looks like or what other peoples experiences have been. Look at what the word of God says, He Himself said it is not good for a man to be alone. Do you not think that the God who intricately knitted you in your others womb, who has plans to prosper you and not to harm you, to give you an expected end, the Alpha and the Omega who knows the end from the beginning, who redeemed you and bought you with the precious blood of Jesus before you were even born can not provide for you a spouse or is not interested to lead you to the right spouse? Let me tell you if God knows the numbers of hairs on your head he is definitely interested in who you marry or get married to.

Stop giving away part of your heart prematurely to the wrong people only to discover at the end of a heart break that it was not the right person. Marriage is a covenant for life that you can not afford to get into with the wrong person. In this season of singleness God wants your whole heart and all your focus on him. God has got to become more than enough, more than the desire to get married. Your longing to get married is His longing for you to commune and relate to him.
 
I want to encourage you that you are not alone. God sees your tears and is getting your spouse ready for you. Do not give up hope and compromise yourself and end up in a dead end marriage only because you felt like you couldn't wait any longer. Pour your heart out to the lover of your soul, the one who satisfies more than a spouse could ever do. Get your wholeness and completeness from God. Spouse does not complete you they complement you. If you try and work out God's maths from a worldly point of view you are mistaken, with God 1+1=1 two become one not 1/2+1/2=1 which the world's system will try and tell you that just because you are not married you are not whole. In this time, serve God with all your heart, walk in the destiny of who He called you to be. Make preparations, build a solid bible study and prayer life, Pray for your future spouse begin to call those things that be not as though they are. Like Abraham and Sarah stand with unwavering faith while you wait for God's appointed time. Learn how to manage your finances, how to look after a home for the ladies. Learn how to lead for the men. Preparation is key all the while keeping your focus on Jesus. Do not allow seasons of feeling lonely lead and push you to the wrong person. Every time you are feeling lonely pour your heart out on your creator the one who understand what you are feeling with out explanation, allow his Spirit to comfort you and His peace that transcends all understanding shower you.

I am telling you the right Godly spouse is worth the wait. Allow God to script your love story because He knows exactly what you desire and need, keep holding on and waiting. Through faith and patience we inherit the promises of God!